Hello everyone, 
I am now to this forum, however I have a story first and questions after.
This all starts with my mother, she used to breed cockatoos, and Macaws, as well as cockatiels and a few other small Parrot types.
She has since gotten out of it, however she has adopted out all of them but one. His Name is Benny, He is a Moluccan 'too, He has never been part of a bonded pair. He is now going on 12 years old. When I lived at home, he was bonded with me, He would hang out in my room and get scratches and love and play games like tug of war, I was a teen ager then and we just some reason "got along" when I was 15 some things happened and I was forced to leave home, since I moved out, He has never been taken out of his cage, never had any affection, except when I am home for holidays, When I am around He is a different bird, He is not cage aggressive (forgot to mention that, and he does not like women at all) I can open his cage and he will step up and enjoys me loving on him. I would love to bring him home, However He lives at moms in WV and I live in TX thats a really long trip in a car with a large unsocialized 'Too.
Other then it being a really long trip, I have work and school to attend with 5 days a week, I work from 6-3 and go to school from 530-930, I don't have a whole lot of time to devote to him for the next few months.
It just bothers me so much, that she does not take care of this bird like she should, she wont let him go to anyone but me. Do I have the time to give him the attention and interaction he needs? She feeds him what ever she is eating........... no real diet of any sort........
He never gets out of his cage at her house..... I could offer him more time out of the cage and eventually work with him enough to give him his own "bird bed room" Where he would be in a bird proof room and have tons of things to play with and destroy!
But I don't want to cause him more strife and stress.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated......
What should I do.....

I am now to this forum, however I have a story first and questions after.
This all starts with my mother, she used to breed cockatoos, and Macaws, as well as cockatiels and a few other small Parrot types.
She has since gotten out of it, however she has adopted out all of them but one. His Name is Benny, He is a Moluccan 'too, He has never been part of a bonded pair. He is now going on 12 years old. When I lived at home, he was bonded with me, He would hang out in my room and get scratches and love and play games like tug of war, I was a teen ager then and we just some reason "got along" when I was 15 some things happened and I was forced to leave home, since I moved out, He has never been taken out of his cage, never had any affection, except when I am home for holidays, When I am around He is a different bird, He is not cage aggressive (forgot to mention that, and he does not like women at all) I can open his cage and he will step up and enjoys me loving on him. I would love to bring him home, However He lives at moms in WV and I live in TX thats a really long trip in a car with a large unsocialized 'Too.
Other then it being a really long trip, I have work and school to attend with 5 days a week, I work from 6-3 and go to school from 530-930, I don't have a whole lot of time to devote to him for the next few months.
It just bothers me so much, that she does not take care of this bird like she should, she wont let him go to anyone but me. Do I have the time to give him the attention and interaction he needs? She feeds him what ever she is eating........... no real diet of any sort........
He never gets out of his cage at her house..... I could offer him more time out of the cage and eventually work with him enough to give him his own "bird bed room" Where he would be in a bird proof room and have tons of things to play with and destroy!
But I don't want to cause him more strife and stress.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated......
What should I do.....
