Hmmm, kind of like the question of wanting kids or not. I was ambivalent and or close to not wanting kids. I did all the research I could and then just had to make a choice. I came up with 2 ( a boy and girl) and THANK GOD they were terrific kids. No temper tantrums or any major behavioral issues. I now have 3 conures, 4 dogs, a bunch of sheep and 3 horses. The conures and horses are by far the most demanding/difficult to care for / require the most time. But since my human children have fledged the nest these ARE my kids....and each one is completely different.
Winston (sun conure) is like Evil Kinevil on steroids, both in activity and volume, but is also the most snuggly. Ripping strangers ears off, I could go on but am afraid I would scare you out of a bird.
Lady (sun conure) is as her name applies. She is a lady. Not too playful, would never think of biting anyone, loves to talk, and puts up with Winston until he has gone one step too far.
Pickles (GCC) is the easiest of all my birds. She is like a bloodhound on wings though when she is out. She will search out the entire house until she has found a trusted human and then she just wants to hang out and preen each other. She is pretty snuggly and likes to play. She cracks me up to no end.
I am 47 and my goal is to be around long enough for my fids and my 5-year-old Paso Dino. They are all super dependent on me and to place them in another setting would be abuse, just as it would be with a child.
At least with the birds and horses, you can get a general idea of personality before making things permanent, not so much with kids. But when considering bringing a conure home, make sure you will be able to be mom/dad throughout its life. If I had gotten a conure while I had little children it would have been disastrous.
Good luck with your decision regardless of what it is. I will have to say that I feel I "owe" Pickles a little more as she is by herself while the Suns are housed together in a huge cage and play great with each other, but I would never ever ever ever have 2 Suns together just because of the noise, but again, I made that bed...