Well, I'm back. A huge thanks to all of you for the bits of advice, especially regarding fixing up the damage done to my apt.
Btw, I use LOTS of hyperbole in my speech online and off. So, yes, I use the word HATE very loosely just like I will say "this is the best day of my life!" if I happen to have my favorite dessert or something like that. If I REALLY hated Tofu he'd either be DEAD, set "free", or locked in his cage all day.
I don't have the heart to clip his wings. When I use to clip them it was sad to see him just fall to the floor. Then there was the fear of someone stepping on him. And I'm not even cruel enough to lock him in his cage except for when I'm not home or at night when he goes to sleep.
But anyway, the deal now is this. I HAVE to rehome him. My bf and I of five years have decided to move in together. He is a manager at a hotel and works nights often (graveyard shifts). There is no way he will get any sleep after hthose shifts. In addition to that, Tofu attacks him. After almost six years Tofu hasn't taken to him but Mr. BF hasn't tried and wants nothing to do with the bird. The bird is a deal breaker and giving the fact that I'm frustrated with Tofu --- the holes in my shirts and blouses, thconstantly cleaning up bird poo everywhere (my fault because I won't clip his wings), the cage cleaning, etc.
I'll be sad but relieved but I'm SCARED of not finding a GREAT home. I REFUSE to give him to just anyone. And I'm not looking to make a buck. I will give him to the right person. So, how do I go about rehoming Tofu? I don't know where to start. You all are so darn knowledgable. Advice and tips will be greatly appreciated. Thanks to all in advance!