Betrisher
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- Jun 3, 2013
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- Parrots
- Dominic: Galah(RIP: 1981-2018); The Lovies: Four Blue Masked Lovebirds; Barney and Madge (The Beaks): Alexandrines; Miss Rosetta Stone: Little Corella
Well! Hasn't it been a rollercoaster of a few weeks?
When Rosetta arrived, she was completely undisciplined and mad, flying round in circles, squealing and generally lacerating everyone she landed on. It was truly awful! After the first week, I had to resort to leaving her in her cage until my arms healed enough to try again. That took three days and during that time, 'setta nearly went bonkers, bouncing madly on her boing and shrieking almost non-stop through night and day. The poor thing! I had no clue what to do for her beyond covering half her cage so she had somewhere to retreat and discouraging the family from going near her.
OK. So the day arrived when I knew this bird needed to be allowed out for exercise. She was fine at first, tossing her balls around the floor and swinging off an old piece of sash cord like a big white bat. Eventually, though, she would lose it and start flying round and round the room, landing periodically on me and not taking the slightest bit of care where or how she landed. That's how she ended up hanging from the skin of my cheek with both claws embedded in my flesh and her beak hanging on for dear life to my earlobe. That was the worst moment.
It took quite a while to get 'setta off my face and the blood seemed to be pouring down my neck. You'll be proud of me, though! I didn't yell or lose my cool. I eventually got hold of 'setta's rope and offered it to her. Thankfully, she climbed off of my face and onto that, from where I could safely put her back in her cage. I nearly had a meltdown as I sat and just looked at her, screeching away in her cage and carrying on like a mad thing. I thought 'What have I brought on myself here?'
Next day, I tried for ten minutes, but now 'setta had decided that my hands are a great substitute for her wooden rattle (which she likes to bite while lying on her back and rolling around the floor). Owch! Not fun! What I've been doing is saying 'No!' clearly and decisively and sort of 'wiping her off' my hand with a small pillow. My hands are a mess from her scalpel-claws and hoboy, does it hurt!
BUT!
Slowly, slowly, she's getting better. For example, she had begun going for my earrings (I wear a gold stud and a very small hoop in each ear). I knew how to handle that, since I'd already learned from teaching the Beaks. It cost me a really nice pair of gold studs, but hey! I know how to de-earringify a bird now, so it was worth it! All you do is cup your hand over your ear saying 'No!' and use your clenched other fist to 'wipe' the bird down past your elbow onto your forearm. No probs! This is why 'do not touch Mum's earrings' was the first thing 'setta has learned.
I took heart from that and realised I can get her to stop lacerating my hands in a similar way. So, today, she didn't hurt me even once! By the end of our play session (half-an-hour, which is lots better than the ten minutes we'd been reduced to), she was getting a bit over-excited and latched onto my hand. I just swooped her straight into the cage and no harm was done to anyone.
This is Progress, right?
During today's session, a few things became apparent as I watched Rosetta. Firstly, she's extremely nervous and jumpy. We have a tin roof and the sound of branches (large gum tree right next to house) gently tapping on the roof frightens her. Very occasionally, a small piece of branch will fall, and when it does, 'setta has a coronary.
Also, if anyone else is abroad in the house, she's highly aware of it and cocks her head to listen. My son dropped something on the floor and again, 'setta startled markedly. The poor dog (seductively beautiful Bull Terrier called Roxanne) barked to be let in and 'setta lost it. She went flapping and squealing round the room like a big white electron. Unfortunately, she chose to alight on the head of my American Girl doll, Harriet, who plummetted to the floor and proved a highly unreliable place for perching. Poor 'setta has so many lessons to learn!
The thing I've finally come to realise is that this bird isn't mental or deranged or damaged in the slightest. She's just disoriented and petrified. Slo-oo-owly, she's getting used to her new surroundings and to me. A few times, she's crawled up my chest and buried her head (I'm sorry, I can't think of a better way to describe this) in my cleavage, clearly shutting out all the scaries around her. I feel so sorry for her and have decided to pull out all stops in finding the way to make her feel safe and loved.
Behind all this, though, is the nagging thought that the people who sold her to us were a bit dishonest. Can anyone help with this? Do you think it's likely that a perfectly well-behaved and tamed bird could become the demon-from-heck (!) that Rosetta seems to be? Or do you think that perhaps the people were getting rid of a bird that they couldn't cope with? The story they told me was that they had 'too many other birds' to care for, yet when I asked about them I got very vague responses and only one bird mentioned by name.
It doesn't make a difference either way. Rosetta is mine now and we'll find a way to make things work for both of us. If she continues to have the occasional good day like today, I'll be happy. I've got patience and time. But it would have helped to know exactly what her personality was before she arrived, y'know?
Awww... she's sleeping now. I have a mirror placed strategically at my desk so I can watch her without her knowing. She's got her little head under her wing and is muttering in her sleep. So cute!
(Adding: it's a few hours later now and she's bellowing to the wild corellas outside as they go home to roost. Anyone who has heard wild corellas will know how VERY BLOODY LOUD Rosetta's voice is. My eardrums are jiggling. Only another half-hour or so and she'll settle in for the night. :22_yikes: )
When Rosetta arrived, she was completely undisciplined and mad, flying round in circles, squealing and generally lacerating everyone she landed on. It was truly awful! After the first week, I had to resort to leaving her in her cage until my arms healed enough to try again. That took three days and during that time, 'setta nearly went bonkers, bouncing madly on her boing and shrieking almost non-stop through night and day. The poor thing! I had no clue what to do for her beyond covering half her cage so she had somewhere to retreat and discouraging the family from going near her.
OK. So the day arrived when I knew this bird needed to be allowed out for exercise. She was fine at first, tossing her balls around the floor and swinging off an old piece of sash cord like a big white bat. Eventually, though, she would lose it and start flying round and round the room, landing periodically on me and not taking the slightest bit of care where or how she landed. That's how she ended up hanging from the skin of my cheek with both claws embedded in my flesh and her beak hanging on for dear life to my earlobe. That was the worst moment.
It took quite a while to get 'setta off my face and the blood seemed to be pouring down my neck. You'll be proud of me, though! I didn't yell or lose my cool. I eventually got hold of 'setta's rope and offered it to her. Thankfully, she climbed off of my face and onto that, from where I could safely put her back in her cage. I nearly had a meltdown as I sat and just looked at her, screeching away in her cage and carrying on like a mad thing. I thought 'What have I brought on myself here?'
Next day, I tried for ten minutes, but now 'setta had decided that my hands are a great substitute for her wooden rattle (which she likes to bite while lying on her back and rolling around the floor). Owch! Not fun! What I've been doing is saying 'No!' clearly and decisively and sort of 'wiping her off' my hand with a small pillow. My hands are a mess from her scalpel-claws and hoboy, does it hurt!
BUT!
Slowly, slowly, she's getting better. For example, she had begun going for my earrings (I wear a gold stud and a very small hoop in each ear). I knew how to handle that, since I'd already learned from teaching the Beaks. It cost me a really nice pair of gold studs, but hey! I know how to de-earringify a bird now, so it was worth it! All you do is cup your hand over your ear saying 'No!' and use your clenched other fist to 'wipe' the bird down past your elbow onto your forearm. No probs! This is why 'do not touch Mum's earrings' was the first thing 'setta has learned.
I took heart from that and realised I can get her to stop lacerating my hands in a similar way. So, today, she didn't hurt me even once! By the end of our play session (half-an-hour, which is lots better than the ten minutes we'd been reduced to), she was getting a bit over-excited and latched onto my hand. I just swooped her straight into the cage and no harm was done to anyone.
This is Progress, right?
During today's session, a few things became apparent as I watched Rosetta. Firstly, she's extremely nervous and jumpy. We have a tin roof and the sound of branches (large gum tree right next to house) gently tapping on the roof frightens her. Very occasionally, a small piece of branch will fall, and when it does, 'setta has a coronary.
Also, if anyone else is abroad in the house, she's highly aware of it and cocks her head to listen. My son dropped something on the floor and again, 'setta startled markedly. The poor dog (seductively beautiful Bull Terrier called Roxanne) barked to be let in and 'setta lost it. She went flapping and squealing round the room like a big white electron. Unfortunately, she chose to alight on the head of my American Girl doll, Harriet, who plummetted to the floor and proved a highly unreliable place for perching. Poor 'setta has so many lessons to learn!
The thing I've finally come to realise is that this bird isn't mental or deranged or damaged in the slightest. She's just disoriented and petrified. Slo-oo-owly, she's getting used to her new surroundings and to me. A few times, she's crawled up my chest and buried her head (I'm sorry, I can't think of a better way to describe this) in my cleavage, clearly shutting out all the scaries around her. I feel so sorry for her and have decided to pull out all stops in finding the way to make her feel safe and loved.
Behind all this, though, is the nagging thought that the people who sold her to us were a bit dishonest. Can anyone help with this? Do you think it's likely that a perfectly well-behaved and tamed bird could become the demon-from-heck (!) that Rosetta seems to be? Or do you think that perhaps the people were getting rid of a bird that they couldn't cope with? The story they told me was that they had 'too many other birds' to care for, yet when I asked about them I got very vague responses and only one bird mentioned by name.
It doesn't make a difference either way. Rosetta is mine now and we'll find a way to make things work for both of us. If she continues to have the occasional good day like today, I'll be happy. I've got patience and time. But it would have helped to know exactly what her personality was before she arrived, y'know?
Awww... she's sleeping now. I have a mirror placed strategically at my desk so I can watch her without her knowing. She's got her little head under her wing and is muttering in her sleep. So cute!
(Adding: it's a few hours later now and she's bellowing to the wild corellas outside as they go home to roost. Anyone who has heard wild corellas will know how VERY BLOODY LOUD Rosetta's voice is. My eardrums are jiggling. Only another half-hour or so and she'll settle in for the night. :22_yikes: )
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