I brought the Rbird home and had him on my shoulder all night as I sat against a wall... the cage wasn't to be delivered until tomorrow. NO, of course, I couldn't leave him at the bird store until the nnext day! By the next morning, we were in love. Since then, I have let him do anything he wants. I didn't have Parrot Forums back in those days, so I "winged" it, and badly. He's a complete monster now, but he does love me.