I am reading this. I like fitting into things. Like the group of friends I have right now at college (known them since freshmen year of high school) their all in happy relationships. Others are married, and the married couples have kids, or are pregnant. I kinda want a guy who can be like me. Go bird crazy, and lie around making weird faces and comments at the TV.
So I feel like the odd ball.
but didn't help that my mom tells me she doesn't like the guy I was really into, and that I can do better. I'll just marry my birds, at this rate I won't find Mr. Right.
P S where is the frosting ? For reals.
I feel ya about the bird guy! The person I'm with now doesn't particularly like pets. More specifically, he doesn't like untrained animals. If the animal is trained, he's ok with it - but he wont take the time to train said animal.
He realizes that my animals are part of *MY* package and he accepts that.... but he doesn't like my new bird... and she in turn doesn't like him! LOL Well, it honestly didn't help that she flew at him and bit his neck... now I'm wondering if he'll ever help me to help her to accept men in her life. I didn't even know if she had any preferences over genders, and still not entirely sure she does!
I have one ex that I am *so* pissed off at his family for! I've gotten two animals from them, one being a dog. That family f'd up that dog pretty badly to the point that he couldn't be around little kids! I was able to get him to accept adults (this dog when I first got him guarded me with his life - that's how much he didn't like others!) but wasn't able to train him to accept kids... and that was his undoing. He ended up at the pound, and then my family decided to put him down without allowing me to say goodbye to him. I lost my entire appetite for a week I was so pissed and upset!
Another ex had a dog. An australian shepherd. That dog was his best friend. His buddy. I helped to train that dog (he was easy to train! said ex had no interest in training him - just playing with him), and when that dog got lost the first time, I found the dog and brought him home. He was so happy to have his buddy home! Then he lost his dog again and after that it was like "Oh well. He's gone. He's not coming back" and didn't even bother trying to look for him.
Once, I did fall for a guy who also loved birds! Silly me though, I really didn't know him! He's now my brother in law and the father to my nephew, and sometime next year will be the father to my second nephew or niece! His choices, decisions, just him... (things I shouldn't say in public!) it infuriates me! I have literally banged my head against the wall because of him.
I do understand that part! I've always been a loner. My best friend was in kindergarten, and then she moved away. I got two new "best friends" in elementary school, but they were the kind of friends that talked behind my back about me. I then had another "best friend" in middle school and highschool. She had a twin sister. They often picked on me, left me out of things (much like my sister and one of my cousins did to me) and probably even talked behind my back about me.
I'm more likely to be found wandering around than out shopping. (speaking of shopping..... I seriously need new clothes!!! still don't want to go shopping! lol I abhor it!) I wouldn't mind finding someone who enjoyed getting out of the house to go exploring and someone who also was just as crazy about animals as I am!
Does any parent reallyyyyy approve of the person you date?
Isnt it the parents job to think no one is good enough for their child?
I think for the most part my mother didn't care about who I dated! Not that I had many boyfriends! LOL I'm sure there's at least one she didn't like.
That said, my mother and I can tell stories about my brother in law and the stupid things he does! I do accept that he is my brother in law, but my sister could do so much better in finding not only a better guy for herself, but a better father for her child(s). I hate how it seems as if my sister is an only parent when she's not. My mother and I agree on this, and my sister is aware of this. I do worry that once she has another child, her husband will not become a better father to his kids like she might hope. I think that she feels that if she were to have a little girl, he would be a better father. (she also wants to have two kids and that should be fulfilled in May) As much as I love my sister, I think she does stupid things, too! As I describe them, I often say that they are "Imperfectly perfect for each other!"
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PS, the cake is a lie!
