Hi all , so where to start I am the partner of a beautiful African grey female who is 16 years old , however my wife decided she would love the companionship that I also have with my bird , so we brought a gorgeous young male into the family . Problem is he is starting to take a liking to me and not wife , he will allow her to touch him and smooth him but is constantly trying to get to me and I am able to handle him without much issue ? Would you guys say it’s because of how he sees I am with my grey ? And also what would you guys suggest would be the right steps to allow a secure and loving bond between our new friend and my wife ?