I've had my 7 year old conure for 3 years and apart from the first couple of months of having her, I've always given her pellets in varying quantities. She gets harrisons and pretty bird natural gold. Apart from those first few months of having her, she's always been extremely hormonal and I've tried everything to help her. She isn't happy at all, she screams about 50% of her waking life at nothing. I give her everything she wants or needs and she's still unhappy and screaming half the time. She tries to attack me, will lunge at me even when I'm feeding her, and in general doesn't seem like she's happy at all. I know conures scream. I know they're loud. How she's being is not normal though and I have tried everything except removing the pellets.
I've done all of the standard advice and the more I do, the worse she gets. Covering her for 12+ hours a night makes her worse. Removing seeds makes her worse. Increasing pellets, removing seeds and increasing chop makes her worse. Changing her cage around makes her worse. Having her out of the cage more makes her worse. Spending more time with her hasn't helped, training her more hasn't helped. In the last few weeks I removed seeds entirely, gave her the minimum recommended amount of pellets and unlimited chop, covered her for 13-14hrs a night, changed her cage around twice, got her new toys, trained her every day, had her out in the aviary both weekend days for 8 hours each time and she's worse than she's ever been. She's louder than she's ever been, more aggressive than she's ever been and I don't know what else to do. She seven years old. She's not going through puberty and she shouldn't be this bad when I'm doing everything right.
The only thing I can think of doing that I haven't yet is removing the pellets. She isn't a fussy eater so I'm not worried about her not eating the right foods for her nutrition. She goes outside a lot and I just got an avian lamp so I'm not worried about vitamin D. I can give her unlimited chop and she loves fresh vegetables and fruits so that's not a problem. I can give her seeds in her foraging toys so she works for them which she loves doing, and I can limit the amount she gets as well. I also have loads of pellets left so I'm going to give them to her a couple of times a week so she'll still be getting some pellets.
Do you think this would finally calm her down and enable her to enjoy her life again? It's been three years of her screaming all day everyday and I don't know if I can do it for much longer, let alone the rest of her life.
I am not an expert But- I have a friend who has raised Linnie’s cockatiels and budgies for over 20 years- she breeds show birds, she knows what she is doing and these guys are at their peak physically. She is incredibly knowledgeable and has learned a lot from experience . She makes her own dry food mixes and food supplements.
Interestingly, although when I first started learning about bird diets, many people were saying, no seed, pellets, or less seed…
This breeder insists that pellets are processed and full of things that are not really much better. In some cases, worse, depending on the pellet.
She’s fine with supplementing with a drag good pellet- but found over the years that pelleted diets led to worse health and physical condition, poorer representation in shows… dulling of feathers etc.
with her dry food mixes ( tons of different seeds, plants, veg and fruit bits, spices, herbs,) plus her mineral supplement and healing dried herb salads, fresh chop, they smelled better, looked better, were in better condition overall.
So in my understanding she actually doesn’t recommend pellets at all esp if they are getting fresh food-
For my birds, I go with her method mostly bc she is my main bird mentor and I know her personally. I use her methods and food mixes.
I still offer them Harrison’s, separately or sprinkled into the mix. Or for fun, they like to pick at the mash.
So take me with a grain of salt bc I am still learning… but just thought I’d put this out there, in some places it’s an unpopular opinion but I think it’s also one that many others share.
I haven’t had birds long enough to notice long term benefits if any. But I noticed that the Linnie would get constipated on the all pellet diet, her poops were colorless and thick, and she had a musky smell that was cute. That being said she was eating chop but eating quite as much fresh food as she does now.
On the non pellet diet, her poops are colorful, proper consistency (for a Linnie this is unfortunate -RIP all my white shirts) and her smell is more floral and honeyed.
Either way, I just hope I’m doing the right thing! I do believe that for my girls, pellets are not really necessary except as a supplement. I offer them and they do eat some, but prefer the other foods.
As far as the behavior I’m so sorry you are going through this, it must be heartbreaking to feel like your baby isn’t happy. I only have experience with small birds, so not sure if that tracks with Conures. The breeder friend I have puts her birds on an austerity diet to discourage hormonal behavior. Fresh chop is only served 1-3 times a week, if at all,6 every day. The fresh food tells them it’s a good time to breed. There are other aspects of it… it’s short of a risk vs benefit thing bc obviously we want them to eat fresh for health… but if hormones are wreaking havoc it can be worth it. Watches the amounts, no free for all buffets. Apparently the austerity diet tells them hey, it’s not the growing season anymore, let’s chill out hormones. Covers them 14 hours a night consistently.
It’s hard to discourage hormones in the spring… going off austerity diet can be a trigger too… protein and extra minerals can exacerbate issues , so can bathing daily or rainy weather.
But also idk if what you describe is hormonal in the sense of breeding- like being eggy and nesty… or if she’s struggling with her mental health.
My budgie became a basketcase after we moved, the new house stressed her out so much. It’s taken a year or two for her to be comfortable and happy, and re memorize all her flight patterns.
She was also unhappy bc we left my in laws, who she considered part of the flock.
But you say it’s been going on for years? It sounds like she is well loved and cared for- Could you share a little bit more about your lifestyle, living situation, set up, where you live generally, weather patterns and noise, others you live with and relationships with your bird. Rituals, you do, playtime and snuggling, all of those things. What she does when she is OOC… where she sleeps, where her cage is… how tame is she or trained, like does she step up? Is she finger shy, does shs just lunge or actually bite, what are her bite triggers… what is her specific behavior… is she screaming everywhere she goes?
What is her behavior regarding toys and foraging etc?
Maybe we can help you troubleshoot a bit if we have more info, Maybe others could see some larger pattern's
My Linnie was hormonal when she was around 6-10 months, and I know your bird has been doing this longer, but my girl was very triggered by food and would bite me when I tried to feed her, or fill her bowls, also would try to burrow in my bed and attack me when I attempted to get her out.
She’s better now, but the constant attacking… that reminds me of your Conure. I realized that she thinks the hand is not part of me, and that it’s a monster coming to take her food. She can’t tell that it’s giving and helping.
It took a long time but she finally has figured out that the hand is not evil. She steps up obediently and takes treats gently from my hand. Still has grumpy moments in the spring where she just can’t control her self

I think for her it was hormonal but I also think she would still be like that if I didn’t work on training her.
One thing that helped is my other bird is tame, so she saw that and mimicked her more.
I also used the gentle beak method, where when she attacked I stroke her beak and sing a song in a baby voice… and made little squeaky bird baby noises to her.
I had her watch me change my bedsheets and used a new different color- somehow she realized it wasn’t her bed.
I gave her 14 hours sleep every night.
I put her in her cage everytime she bit me really really really hard
Linnie’s are very different psychologically so… these are just a few things that worked for me.
For my budgie, sometimes she gets diva like and tries to run the house. She screams to get her way. When she screams I know she wants something and usually I know what it is, I will give it to her or do what she wants, like take her upstairs to see her dad lol, then she’s fine. she uses the screeching to get our attention and get what she wants. Within reason. I mean sometimes it’s ridiculous it’s like “I want my toy on this perch not that perch!” They are that intelligent and spoiled

as you know.
However, if she goes on screeching
And it’s just totally unreasonable and I can’t figure out what it is she needs and I’ve tried everything within reason, I just ignore her or leave the room. It’s hard but I’ve gotten used to having to do it once in a while , it’s just the only that works.
She realize her screeching isn’t getting her what she wants, will settle down and make do with the wonderful situation at hand, which is being a loved spoiled little baby with lots of toys and beautiful enrichment areas. She will be chattering happily to herself in no time.
However if daddy comes in, she may commence screaming to him, thinking that Maybe he will understand her request. Sometimes he does because they have their own rituals they do.
I’m sorry, I have no idea of any of this will help you

my heart goes out to you and I wish you lots of luck, hope this gets resolved