There's never a dull moment with an eclectus. They are very independent which personally was the main determining factor for choosing an ekkie, for a full time student who volunteers and works, I couldn't imagine any other bird to fit my lifestyle. Although she spends over 6 hours outside of the cage, I really appreciate her independent nature. I can clean, study, etc. with her happily playing on the perch. She continues to make me smile with all of her cute antics and voices. Her favorite game is to hide behind her toy, then pop her head out and say "peekaboo!!"
Blunt: yes and no? She doesn't hide her emotions and moods very well which helps me read her body language. I can tell just by the sounds of her calls what she wants, whether its food, affection, fear or pain from falling. She definitely picks and chooses who she likes, tolerates and loathes. So far, it's been mixed and a bit difficult getting her to socialize (especially with my older brother...). She lets it be known when she wants to be held and when she doesn't. We're still working on manners and forming boundaries, after all she still is a little baby and there's a lot of work still to be done.
Personally, I couldn't have picked a more perfect feathered companion. Nalani's my first bird that I've ever owned and there's been a lot of patience tested (on both ends of the stick), but we love each other nonetheless. What I found that really was helpful in choosing an eclectus, was my lifestyle. Because of my unpredictable future as a pre-veterinary student, I didn't and still don't know if I would be living in an apartment, renting a room, living with roommates who have allergies, or have the time allotted to own a "needier" bird. I wanted a fid that would be independent, handle stress a bit easier (reason why I chose a female instead of a male), was affectionate but not overly demanding of attention, intelligent and one that I can form a life long bond and friendship with. A female eclectus fit the bill perfectly, and although each bird is different and unique, after getting to know Nalani and working with her, I know she and I match perfectly.
I hope you find the perfect companion, whether it ends up being an eclectus or not. The key is to reflect on your current life (work, school, environment) and then your possible future (where will you live in the next 10 years.. or 20, etc., who will you be living with, what kinds of career will you be working in). Not just the present but the future is just as important in determining the right fid.