Something else I forgot to mention...
My husband noticed (as I did) that Maxie was hesitant to get on my arm, and when she did as mentioned before she would immediately go to my shoulder. Well, she didn't/doesn't do this to him. The only difference between us (besides the obvious LOL) is his arm was bare and I always had a long sleeve shirt or sweatshirt on. He told me to pull up my sleeve and try it again... I did that and she stayed put.

We think she was insecure because my sleeve would twist/turn which didn't give her a good grasp.
The downside... Maxie isn't going to the vet until the 7th and her nails look like they haven't been trimmed in 2 years! By the time I put her back on her perch, I look like I have taken a razor blade and cut the heck out of my arm. I am sure she can sense that I am uncomfortable with her on my arm.
I can't wait until we get home from the vet! I am
so looking forward to a nice calm interaction with Maxie... one where I am not in pain from her nails when my sleeve is up, or if my sleeve is down, I don't have to put my hand in front of her face so she can't climb up me. After her nails are trimmed and between what Brian (Kiwi's breeder) taught me, and the sleeve issue, I think we will be off to some great bonding!
Another question (sorry if I drive you all nuts!)...
When I go to scratch the back of Maxie's head, she warns me with her beak that she doesn't want scratches. She doesn't like my hand coming from the back, from the front, or the top. How do I get her to let me give her scratches??? I know she would like it if she would just get used to my hand approaching her to do this. Are there any "tricks" to this?
I get so frustrated with myself because it's so very easy to love my little "finger" bird Kiwi (WBC). I want that same interaction/bonding with Maxie in the worst way!! I won't give up on Maxie; I just hope she doesn't give up on me!