My suit came with directions for introducing the suit to your bird. You need to go very slow with introducing it. Hanging it near the cage for several days so the bird can just see it, moving it closer after a while. When she's out with you, you can let her see it, play with it etc first to get used to it before trying to put it on. If your suit didn't come with the directions you should be able to look them up on their website. Hope this helps. I'm still trying to get River used to his suit, he's not exactly thrilled with the idea. I think it's just going to takes lots of time and patience.