Haha, I think most of the older folks on the forum will remember my journey.
I never thought of having a bird. I mean, I had chickens as a child and other kinds of pets. My partner and I were thinking that at some point in our lives we'd get a cat or a dog again.
Then suddenly this big green bird landed on our balcony (which we never go out to - we just had a friend over so we were coincidentally there), and this bird said, "Hello!" So we naturally said, "Hello," back. Me being the animal lover and misanthrope that I am, immediately wanted to help him - we started searching for his family via phone and social media, and I offered him food and water. We even postponed our dinner by several hours just to make sure he wouldn't fly away before his family could come to pick him up (and they needed to break their Ramadan fast first). We managed to find his family via Facebook and returned him home the same day. After that, I was "charmed by ekkie"
Crazily enough, a few months later, his family asked if we would like to adopt him (they were struggling to balance having a newborn baby and a parrot). You can read my history to see the whole saga haha I just turned to my partner, and he knew "no" was not an answer
Even now, people ask me, "Why a bird?" And I often respond, "It's not a bird. It's Cairo." Part of me feels like he's my one and only - there's no other bird I'd adopt even if something happened to Cairo. His character and personality stood out so quickly to me. That cleverness and cheekiness, the bluffing mixed with the small moments of neediness, that spark in his eye as he evaluated a situation. I was besotted.
I mean, I do enjoy watching other birds now, but even as I interact with other parrots, I still find that Cairo and I just click so well, even when he's being naughty. Some of our friends don't understand just how intelligent parrots are, and they just make random sounds at him and why I talk to him like he's a human being. Then they see how he understands context, and it changes their perspective.