plumsmum: Oh wow I didn't realize that they had a dominance type dealio at all. I was told that birds see you as their equal, and there isn't a pack mentality at all... Well then! Learn something new every day.
I suppose that could be what he's doing, since he is so outgoing and confident in himself. Maybe it's a mix of that AND hormones, which is what is making the aggression so unpredictable?
How did you establish yourself as the "flock leader" and not to be bitten so much then? I'm trying to be firm and redirect him or distract him with a little earthquake or by saying no pretty loud a
nd then showing him the mirror and dancing him around (which he loves.) So far that seems to work more than just saying owe and waiting for him to stop. I also praise him lots when he lets me touch him even for a moment, without biting. Is this an okay long term solution until he figures it out, or should I be doing more?
Great suggestions on handling as well, I really appreciate it thank you!!
pinkybirdy: lol yeah honeymoon is over I guess but I love him with all my heart and I'm committed to making this relationship work.

Also I wouldn't say it's a broken relationship or anything - I was able to take him out and about the house with me while I cleaned, and just now when I showered, and he did bite a few times but not nearly as aggressive as before... He seems to forget about it when it happens? lol.