@Dinosrawr Not only that but people who have never had birds who make it sound like having a parrot is like owning a goldfish. Or worse yet, they'll "claim" to know it all because, as they say, 'my mom had finches when I was little.' or 'I used to have a parakeet when I was a kid.'
Now don't get me wrong. Someone can love a budgie just as much as they can a conure. Or even a goldfish for that matter. I know, I had my budgie Sammy for eleven years and he was my best friend. Budgies are also incredibly smart and funny. But some parrots have more needs and responsibilities than others. I don't think 'non-bird' people get that when it comes to birds.
I also think soooooo many people get into parronthood thinking they got it all figured out only to discover that no they don't. It does pay to do research BEFORE making that purchase. Unfortunately, with suns - too often people make impulse purchases based on their plumage.
Skittles colors isn't want won me over. I knew he was beautiful, but I've seen plenty of beautiful birds and it wasn't like it was a 'new' thing to me. It was his 'hopping' and excitement at seeing me that won me over. Especially when he ignored everyone else that came to see him. That's when "I knew".
The ironic thing is, I had decided to get rid of all my teflon cookware and purchased a new stainless steel cooking set about four months before I got him. It was not because I was getting another bird. Peaches is in a separate room on the other side of the apartment. I got the new cooking set because it was on sale.
The same day I was planning on ordering my new PC, was the same day I bought Skittles. Funny thing is, I kept putting off getting the PC because I couldn't make up my mind on which kind to get. Then the Thursday before, voila, here came Skittles.
To many coincidences added up. I know I tell that story a lot, but that's because it was a turning point in my life - getting him was the best thing I ever did.
Whenever I take Skittles outside - the FIRST thing almost all of them ask is "Does he talk?" right after commenting on his colors. THAT irks me to no end.
When people ask me what kind of parrot he is, how much do they cost and where did I get him they don't like what I tell them. Usually, as soon as I tell them the cost, they're like "forget that!". Tragedy avoided as far as I'm concerned. I don't tell strangers the cute and funny things he does. I tell them of the requirements (cookware, candles, air fresheners, ACs etc) and the 'not so cute' things he does. I find in almost all cases, it dissuades them from buying one that will end up on Craigslist.
It's a shame I have to do that. But if I really wanted a sun conure - I wouldn't let those things dissuade me. They didn't when the clerk told me how loud and demanding they are.
Anyways, enough of my ranting.