Featheredsamurai
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My mom was asking why I couldn't watch one of my nieces tomorrow evening right after work, I explained that when I get home I need to be with Rosie and Kenji since they've been alone all day. and it would of been fine if it was a day I didn't work. I had told my sister that she could watch a movie, or play and I could check on her everyonce in a while. I thought that was ok, since I had already told her no and she complained and complained to me until I finally gave in. My mom, after hearing my side of the story, said at times like this she feels I shouldn't have birds. That I act like I love them more than my family, I told her I don't love them more but I do have the same amount of love.
She looked at me with a horrified expression, and said I must have a mental condition if I could think such a thing. To love a pet the same as your human family! A human family with feelings that get hurt. She asked if I would be as sad if Rosie died as I would if one of my nieces died. I lied and said I would be more sad if my niece died, I couldn't take her shocked expression any more. She said to tell my sister I would hang out with my niece, and all she did was show me the difference between loving a pet and family. She did compromise, she's going to let my niece use her iPad to play, or she can bring books into my room so Rosie and Kenji still get to get their time with me.
Now I'm really sad sitting on my bed, and I just keep crying. I feel like I can't stop, I hate that humans feel that they're so much more important that every other animal. I love my birds so much, especially Rosie. If anything ever happened to Rosie I would be broken. And I expect that within a few years it will be the same with Kenji.
Rosie and Kenji are my family, in my eyes they are the kids I wi never have(sorry all you moms, I just really don't want kids).
That's all, just needed to share all these feelings I'm having
She looked at me with a horrified expression, and said I must have a mental condition if I could think such a thing. To love a pet the same as your human family! A human family with feelings that get hurt. She asked if I would be as sad if Rosie died as I would if one of my nieces died. I lied and said I would be more sad if my niece died, I couldn't take her shocked expression any more. She said to tell my sister I would hang out with my niece, and all she did was show me the difference between loving a pet and family. She did compromise, she's going to let my niece use her iPad to play, or she can bring books into my room so Rosie and Kenji still get to get their time with me.
Now I'm really sad sitting on my bed, and I just keep crying. I feel like I can't stop, I hate that humans feel that they're so much more important that every other animal. I love my birds so much, especially Rosie. If anything ever happened to Rosie I would be broken. And I expect that within a few years it will be the same with Kenji.
Rosie and Kenji are my family, in my eyes they are the kids I wi never have(sorry all you moms, I just really don't want kids).
That's all, just needed to share all these feelings I'm having
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