Thanks kid - was planning on a post weekend update once we've had a few more full days with her.
Anyways, it looks like I am the problem, as the bird will be completely level until I show up. She then wants me to be her patting slave for the next hour, while she chews holes in my jeans, grooms my sweatshirt, and pulls the teeth out of my sweatshirt zipper.
Then when it's time for her to go back to her cage, she loses her mind, with some quality screaming and foot stomping.
So good things yesterday were that we saw less aggression, and that she came off the cage to sit on my lap, and the lap of child #2. No hissing took place and she appears to be getting better with the dogs. Negatives are that she already seems to be in love with me, has some separation anxiety issues, and is still agressive including a bite on the Mrs when giving her a peanut, and plenty of lunging and snapping when you've somehow offended her highness in some way. Her anger at me when I stop paying attention to her is comical yet a bit scary as well.
Work in progress - we'll see how today goes. At least yesterday was a bit more encouraging.