I work at a pet store - letās get past that, I have good intentions to take care of what comes my way.
My boss just brought in a pair of Linnies who are babies and very hand shy. She said they need work, and told me to pick them up and hold them against my chest to get them used to being handled.
Is this an appropriate way to show them that we mean no harm?
Ok so Iām late to this but in case anyone else reads-
Just my humble two cents⦠while I do agree with everyone about the āno forced surrenderā I will say that Linnieās are very different from any other breed of parrots. Sometimes I feel like they are part guinea pig. A budge would freak out but Linnieās do feel safe and happy when they are āswaddledā So sometimes it can help- to cup them gently, both hands no pressure against their body, and close the gap with your face a little , and talk soothingly to them, it can calm them down: however if you try to do this and they are still panicking and trying to get away you obviously have to let them go, you canāt āholdā them , if that makes sense, that would be traumatic.
It depends on the individual birds a bit as well. If they have been raised by a small breeder itās possible the breeder did this and they are used to it. They often hate hands so as babies, cupping and scooping them is often a safer way for pick them up, and they shouldnāt panic as much. They are not āfinger birdsā it makes them uncomfortable to perch on your finger for long, and definitely for riding they prefer shoulder/neck area.
Try wearing a collared shirt, hoodie, linen or cozy scarf around your neck and see if they will grab onto it and hide in it. This can warm them up a bit as long as long term burrowing isnāt encouraged .
All that being said, not to invalidate your feelings because whatever you read is valid, and your boss sounds like a difficult person who either is invalidating your opinions in a rude way, or is just ignorant. If she is talking about grabbing the birds and forcing them to hold still while they are panicking and trying to wriggle away, you are correct thatās absolutely not right!
Btw some Linnieās will warm up to faces far quicker than they will to hands!
Good luck and thank you for your research and questioning- you are being such sweet and devoted warrior for these precious angels!