Morgan_miller
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- Oct 8, 2015
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Hello everyone! I am new here and have found tons of great help just from reading. Now that I have joined, I thought I could reach out for some help and advice. My honey and I recently adopted Hank from a pet store. Hank is a 10 year old African Grey who was hand fed and raised by a family that he was with for 10 years. Hank bonded with a young boy in the family (apparently) When it came time for the boy to go to college, the parents decided Hank needed a new home and was sent to the pet shop. Hank was at the pet shop for 1 month before we came in and decided we could not leave him there another day. While Hank was at the pet shop, he would not let anyone take him out of his cage and would not come out of his cage on his own. He did talk a little to some people and sang to himself a bit. We brought Hank home and have been settling in for the past two weeks. Hank is very talkative and loves to sit on the door of his cage and sing and dance with me. He thoroughly enjoys eating fruit with me (only if it's out of my hand and does not like veggies).
Enter the tough stuff --> Hank is home most mornings by himself at which time I will open the cage door and allow him to hang out on his cage if he so pleases during the day when I am gone. He has a ton of toys and goodies to eat/snack on throughout the day. Hank does not want to be touched or step up. AT ALL. Hank refuses to go back in his cage at night. Ordinarily, I would not have an issue with him hanging out in or on his cage at his leisure, however, Hank is not our only adopted child. We also have 2 large Labradors. Even though they are curious and kind, animals are not always predictable and I would hate to have something happen by mistake. I can not entice Hank into his cage at night or off his cage if we are home and watching a movie and want him to join us. He runs or bites (VERY HARD, not the kind you can grit and bear it, the kind that draws blood and leaves that finger incapacitated for a week or two) or my favorite, flies off his cage with a less than graceful landing. If he flies off onto the floor, he will step up on my hand willingly. I believe he doesn't like being on the floor. When he is on my hand, he will sit until we get remotely close to his cage and then flies off my hand to his cage again (with an even more less than graceful landing). I have tried to calm him by petting and such and he bites....Hard. VERY hard. I have no idea what to do. I am very patient and kind and he enjoys sitting and talking and singing and dancing and eating. But he refuses to be handled. I am afraid that this will lead to too much independence or even more bad behavior or worse, depression. We desperately want him to be a part of our family and eat and go with us to do things and have free reign of the house.
I also know that he will need time to settle in, but how long is too long to let a bird be and settle in? How can you acclimate them to you if you are letting them be? Any help or advise would be so greatly appreciated I can't put it into words.
Enter the tough stuff --> Hank is home most mornings by himself at which time I will open the cage door and allow him to hang out on his cage if he so pleases during the day when I am gone. He has a ton of toys and goodies to eat/snack on throughout the day. Hank does not want to be touched or step up. AT ALL. Hank refuses to go back in his cage at night. Ordinarily, I would not have an issue with him hanging out in or on his cage at his leisure, however, Hank is not our only adopted child. We also have 2 large Labradors. Even though they are curious and kind, animals are not always predictable and I would hate to have something happen by mistake. I can not entice Hank into his cage at night or off his cage if we are home and watching a movie and want him to join us. He runs or bites (VERY HARD, not the kind you can grit and bear it, the kind that draws blood and leaves that finger incapacitated for a week or two) or my favorite, flies off his cage with a less than graceful landing. If he flies off onto the floor, he will step up on my hand willingly. I believe he doesn't like being on the floor. When he is on my hand, he will sit until we get remotely close to his cage and then flies off my hand to his cage again (with an even more less than graceful landing). I have tried to calm him by petting and such and he bites....Hard. VERY hard. I have no idea what to do. I am very patient and kind and he enjoys sitting and talking and singing and dancing and eating. But he refuses to be handled. I am afraid that this will lead to too much independence or even more bad behavior or worse, depression. We desperately want him to be a part of our family and eat and go with us to do things and have free reign of the house.
I also know that he will need time to settle in, but how long is too long to let a bird be and settle in? How can you acclimate them to you if you are letting them be? Any help or advise would be so greatly appreciated I can't put it into words.