Pigeonspartying
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I don't know if it's because Spring is in the air or Zim is just settling in to our new home and dynamic but his hormonal behaviours have been steadily increasing in intensity.
He has chosen my partner as his mate, with all the joys of following him everywhere, regurgitating food on him and biting me if I were to get in the way of his romance, ie if I remove him from my partner, remove him from the room he wants to be in or make him do anything he doesn't want to do (like move out of the way when I'm refreshing his water or food dish). He also does some more tolerable wooing behaviours such as strutting, waving and shaking his head, dancing and knocking his beak. He also humps the couch, any blanket he can get a hold of, towels and any particularly attractive looking shoes.
We've been trying to get ahead of this behaviour, no longer allowing him in the bedroom (blankets and dark nooks galore, also a place I get bitten a lot when he does manage to slip in, as he is doggedly determined to do.) No mushy foods, not leaving out blankets or shoes, firmly saying "no, naughty" and putting him in a 10 minute time-out when he bites me. My partner shoos him away when he notices he's been regurgitated on or if he sees the warning behaviours.
Zim is 8-10 years old. We don't touch him anywhere besides the head unless we are briefly stretching out his wings for harness/handling training. He has a diet of vetafarm paradise pellets with access to fruits and veggies to chomp on throughout the day. He's not overly interested in toys and I'm training him to use foraging toys. He previously belonged to a family where he received an inadequate diet of mostly sunflower seeds and whatever people food was left out, very little socialization, no training, no routine (his family operated all 24 hours of the day and did not put him in his cage to sleep at night). He was handled roughly all over the body by the family member who he chose as his mate (and seemed to love it).
I would imagine his history and upbringing has impacted his long term sexual behaviour, I'm curious as to whether the intensity of his hormonal behaviour can be decreased overall with training and time, or just something we'll have to learn to work around. In any case -
Is there anything more we can/should do? Should we stop him or allow him to hump the couch to "get it out of his system"? If we should stop him, is there a way we can make the couch less sexy to him to avoid it in the first place? How do we make areas like under furniture, or gaps between furniture (aka the dark hollows of every day life) less triggering for him? Are there any other triggers I am missing in this post? May I also hear about your experiences and how you have worked through them?
In any case, no matter what, he is my small green son and I won't take his natural behaviours personally and I am learning ways of minimizing the damage of his bites (If he's in that mood and obviously doesn't want to step up onto my arm, I won't make him unless I have to - and then he definitely doesn't get range of my hand or fingers. I may even cover my arm with something protective.)
I just want to give him the best life possible and meet his needs as well as I can.
He has chosen my partner as his mate, with all the joys of following him everywhere, regurgitating food on him and biting me if I were to get in the way of his romance, ie if I remove him from my partner, remove him from the room he wants to be in or make him do anything he doesn't want to do (like move out of the way when I'm refreshing his water or food dish). He also does some more tolerable wooing behaviours such as strutting, waving and shaking his head, dancing and knocking his beak. He also humps the couch, any blanket he can get a hold of, towels and any particularly attractive looking shoes.
We've been trying to get ahead of this behaviour, no longer allowing him in the bedroom (blankets and dark nooks galore, also a place I get bitten a lot when he does manage to slip in, as he is doggedly determined to do.) No mushy foods, not leaving out blankets or shoes, firmly saying "no, naughty" and putting him in a 10 minute time-out when he bites me. My partner shoos him away when he notices he's been regurgitated on or if he sees the warning behaviours.
Zim is 8-10 years old. We don't touch him anywhere besides the head unless we are briefly stretching out his wings for harness/handling training. He has a diet of vetafarm paradise pellets with access to fruits and veggies to chomp on throughout the day. He's not overly interested in toys and I'm training him to use foraging toys. He previously belonged to a family where he received an inadequate diet of mostly sunflower seeds and whatever people food was left out, very little socialization, no training, no routine (his family operated all 24 hours of the day and did not put him in his cage to sleep at night). He was handled roughly all over the body by the family member who he chose as his mate (and seemed to love it).
I would imagine his history and upbringing has impacted his long term sexual behaviour, I'm curious as to whether the intensity of his hormonal behaviour can be decreased overall with training and time, or just something we'll have to learn to work around. In any case -
Is there anything more we can/should do? Should we stop him or allow him to hump the couch to "get it out of his system"? If we should stop him, is there a way we can make the couch less sexy to him to avoid it in the first place? How do we make areas like under furniture, or gaps between furniture (aka the dark hollows of every day life) less triggering for him? Are there any other triggers I am missing in this post? May I also hear about your experiences and how you have worked through them?
In any case, no matter what, he is my small green son and I won't take his natural behaviours personally and I am learning ways of minimizing the damage of his bites (If he's in that mood and obviously doesn't want to step up onto my arm, I won't make him unless I have to - and then he definitely doesn't get range of my hand or fingers. I may even cover my arm with something protective.)
I just want to give him the best life possible and meet his needs as well as I can.