self mutilating// help my bird Oscar

emma_oscar

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Hi everyone,

I just signed up for this page because i desperately need help with my lovebird, Oscar. He is a 8y/o male. Oscar is very special to me and my mom, but he has had an ongoing feather picking issue, which has significantly worsened over the past few weeks.

What started as harmless bald spots, has become self mutilation of the underside of his left wing. He has drawn blood multiple times and the injury seems to never heal. I have taken him to the emergency, and to his primary vet 4 times. He has taken antibiotics, pain medication and antidepressants. The vet told me to put a recovery collar until the injury heals. Oscar has now been wearing the collar for 4+ weeks, and every time he manages to remove it or stretch it, he immediately goes to reopen the wound. I have tried everything to make him stop self mutilating - from new toys, foraging, removing any hormonal triggers, and nothing has worked.

Oscar is now very at risk of infection and bleeding… Has anyone managed to find solutions to this issue that isn’t leaving my poor bird in a collar for the rest of his life?? I am extremely desperate. Please help me save Oscar.

(TW I have attached photos of his injury)
 

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Welcome to the forums, @emma_oscar, but I'm so sorry for what you and your sweet baby are going through. I haven't ever had a plucker, (though I did once have a quaker with rather bizarre preening habits), so I can only imagine how heartbreaking it must be to watch Oscar hurting himself this way. While I can't personally offer you any solutions, perhaps the following articles may help you gain a little insight as to why it happens in the first place ...



I hope that someone with a bit more experience with plucking/mutilation will weigh in with some advice for you soon, and I wish you and Oscar all the very best - I'm so glad you found us! 🙏🙏🙏
 
Welcome to the forums, @emma_oscar, but I'm so sorry for what you and your sweet baby are going through. I haven't ever had a plucker, (though I did once have a quaker with rather bizarre preening habits), so I can only imagine how heartbreaking it must be to watch Oscar hurting himself this way. While I can't personally offer you any solutions, perhaps the following articles may help you gain a little insight as to why it happens in the first place ...



I hope that someone with a bit more experience with plucking/mutilation will weigh in with some advice for you soon, and I wish you and Oscar all the very best - I'm so glad you found us! 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you for sending me this article - it was a great read. I believe the vet told us the most likely reason for Oscar’s plucking was hormonal and behavioural. Hopefully we can figure out a solution.

Emma & Oscar
 
Hi there,

Did you buy your collar online? If it’s not a good fit, or has Velcro/snaps the beaks can get them off. Considering your beautiful lovebird has an open wound you really should contact a vet for management. Parrots are notorious for picking at wounds. You want to find an avian vet as they can also train you on collars, how to use them, and different ones depending on the situation.

Just make sure your parrot gets good sleep 12 hours (uninterrupted). Do research on parrot diets. Parrots need attention because of their flock mentality so out of cage time is important daily to be honest. I train with my parrots which they really enjoy, and thrive off of. Also trade out toys, and rearrange the cage often for mental stimulation.
 

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