Hi all!
I'm at a bit of a loss for what to do, so I thought I'd give posting in this forum a go.
(QUESTIONS ARE AT THE END OF THE POST - I want to provide as much context as I think is needed first
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We have a 2.5 year old male Ringneck named Lance. He's always been lively and affectionate towards me, but in the last week, his behaviours have changed in a way I've never seen before.
He's started flying around our downstairs area from perch to perch, screeching each time he takes off and then again when he lands. I've noticed that he'll be looking directly at me while he's doing this, as if to get my attention so I'll say a few words to him (after a period of no screaming) and/or move towards him (as in the past, that's been a way he lets me know he wants to be near me). However, whenever I do this, he'll scream and fly to a perch on the other side of the room. Rinse and repeat for hours on end. I've tried not acknowledging the screams and reinforcing other vocalisations with spoken interaction and treats/clicker, but no luck. I've also tried completely ignoring him while he's doing this (in case he isn't actually trying to get my attention) but if anything that makes things worse. So, in short, he doesn't seem to want me paying attention to him, but also doesn't want me ignoring him. We've had issues with excessive screeching in the past and him potentially be overly attached to me, but this pattern of behaviour is quite a bit worse.
The other big thing I've noticed is that he has been seeking his reflection INCESSANTLY. No reflective surface is safe from his mating display. Though very cute, we know enough to try prevent this where we can so every shiny surface is covered. The only ones that we cant cover are our phones & desktop PC cases (which have glass doors that he can see himself in). I try avoid taking my phone out around him at the moment, but there are times where he does catch a glimpse.
Finally, his routine has changed while one of us is away (waking up earlier on my work days). The thing is, none of this behaviour shows up on my work days where he spends more time in his cage. It's only on my days off, which is obviously upsetting because I'm excited to give him as much out of cage time as we usually do.
QUESTIONS:
Is this mostly do to with his age (reaching sexual maturity)? Do I just have to tough it out?
And/or could it have been triggered by seeing his reflection too much, and/or the change in routine?
I know how much parrots love routine, but our previous routine is just not possible for the next few weeks.
Could being woken up earlier (and thus staying awake longer) be telling him it's mating time?
Does anyone have any tips for redirecting his attention away from his reflection without upsetting/frustrating him?
There are no health concerns that we're aware of, and he has a wide range of toys and foraging stations both in and out of his cages. We're also in Australia, so we're going into Winter
I'm so grateful for any advice or information anyone's will to share

I'm at a bit of a loss for what to do, so I thought I'd give posting in this forum a go.
(QUESTIONS ARE AT THE END OF THE POST - I want to provide as much context as I think is needed first
We have a 2.5 year old male Ringneck named Lance. He's always been lively and affectionate towards me, but in the last week, his behaviours have changed in a way I've never seen before.
He's started flying around our downstairs area from perch to perch, screeching each time he takes off and then again when he lands. I've noticed that he'll be looking directly at me while he's doing this, as if to get my attention so I'll say a few words to him (after a period of no screaming) and/or move towards him (as in the past, that's been a way he lets me know he wants to be near me). However, whenever I do this, he'll scream and fly to a perch on the other side of the room. Rinse and repeat for hours on end. I've tried not acknowledging the screams and reinforcing other vocalisations with spoken interaction and treats/clicker, but no luck. I've also tried completely ignoring him while he's doing this (in case he isn't actually trying to get my attention) but if anything that makes things worse. So, in short, he doesn't seem to want me paying attention to him, but also doesn't want me ignoring him. We've had issues with excessive screeching in the past and him potentially be overly attached to me, but this pattern of behaviour is quite a bit worse.
The other big thing I've noticed is that he has been seeking his reflection INCESSANTLY. No reflective surface is safe from his mating display. Though very cute, we know enough to try prevent this where we can so every shiny surface is covered. The only ones that we cant cover are our phones & desktop PC cases (which have glass doors that he can see himself in). I try avoid taking my phone out around him at the moment, but there are times where he does catch a glimpse.
Finally, his routine has changed while one of us is away (waking up earlier on my work days). The thing is, none of this behaviour shows up on my work days where he spends more time in his cage. It's only on my days off, which is obviously upsetting because I'm excited to give him as much out of cage time as we usually do.
QUESTIONS:
Is this mostly do to with his age (reaching sexual maturity)? Do I just have to tough it out?
And/or could it have been triggered by seeing his reflection too much, and/or the change in routine?
I know how much parrots love routine, but our previous routine is just not possible for the next few weeks.
Could being woken up earlier (and thus staying awake longer) be telling him it's mating time?
Does anyone have any tips for redirecting his attention away from his reflection without upsetting/frustrating him?
There are no health concerns that we're aware of, and he has a wide range of toys and foraging stations both in and out of his cages. We're also in Australia, so we're going into Winter
I'm so grateful for any advice or information anyone's will to share
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