I appreciate your post Wulfgeist . I agree people who don't want to be scratched shouldn't get a cat , but if your diabetic , you can't get scratched , period.
Just like people who want a bird but don't want the "mess" or the "noise".
I totally agree that cats who are let out should have their claws for the same reasons.
And yes , I would have ended that relationship too .
Unfortunately there is de-barking which from my understanding has been declared "unacceptable"by the AKC
When I found the cat I have now , she was declawed already. My husband found her at the dog training field. Thank God she was accustomed to dogs and showed no fear towards the 7 GSD that were there training ! She walked right up to my husband , he picked her up and he felt her to be pretty thin to him. She was very friendly and followed my husband around the whole time. He brought her home , we fed her , checked her for fleas , etc.... Poor thing , as we found out , was there for about two weeks !
Someone from the club has sent he cat around there for that long

Anyway , we found her to be spayed along with declawed. If she had stayed there any longer she would have most likely been taken by a owl or fox or starved. And with no claws , I hate to think about it ....
After posting found cat and calling vets in the area and not in the area , no one has reported a lost cat anywhere , so she is mine , mine , mine

We found our kitten , Poncho recently , and he will be declawed as well. Having a cat that is declawed and one that is not is not such a good idea for many reasons.
The caps that are put over the cats claw do not work well for long and they are not very easy to put on even to a person who knows how to restrain a cat properly..IMO.
Been there , done that.
One of my main reasons to declaw is my birds....I can't live with my self is something happened to my birds. Yes , I can live with the declaw because my cats were all fine , never any complications but a bird just needs one swipe of a claw for a tragedy to happen.
Just my two cents , my own opinion .