This community really is great

thank you all for being so patient and willing to answer all my questions! I am just used to people saying "MAKE A DECISION AND STOP BUGGING US!" lol
Glad to know you do not need to be a stay at home parent to have one of these birds

If you subtract my gym time, I'm really not even away from home 8 hours a day. sometimes I do work a lot in a single irregular day (~10 hrs or so) but I am really happy to hear that you work 8-10 hours and that they are more self-entertaining than a Congo Grey probably is... and definitely more independent than a cockatoo!
So you think he would be ok if I gave him a good breakfast, left some nice, organic, healthy, pellets in another dish for him and then didn't get his big dinner until 6pm-maybe even 7pm at night? (just stretching the time out so I know my boundaries) It would probably be more like 5pm
I know for a FACT I would give him PLENTY of toys (probably new ones monthly) and put TV shows/movies/music on for him all day in my quiet room.
KyleJames, what if your bird begins sounding like the machinery in your garage? I think that would bother me. If it were me, I would keep the bird safe and away in the house (just a thought)
I am beginning to believe that you want to be talked into getting a parrot.
You KNOW YOU WANT ONE

(that's my wish for you)
You appear to be so very concerned about the 'friend you don' have yet'
I still say you will make a great parent.
Good point. I think I will just keep him out of the garage. I Just thought I would mention it as an added bit of time he can see/be with me.
And yes, that's probably what I am looking for

- someone to either talk me INTO or OUT of this decision.. I want someone to make the decision for me so that if I make the wrong one I can't blame myself

again, it all stems from my fear of failure and when I deal with something like a BIRD I do not want my failure to effect an innocent animal that does not deserve it. Anything else I would have decided on already but a PET.. to me.. is so important to never let down or have improper living conditions.. animals are always 100% innocent to me and I hate bringing any distress to them. Hence why I want to make sure I would give a bird enough attention and dedicate enough time to its overall care.
Also... Let's say (and this is NOT a regular thing that I do) I give him breakfast, go to work in the morning, etc. but I stay with a friend or at my girlfriends for the night without being able to drive all the way home to get him (Someone else in my house can feed him his dinner) I wouldn't see him until the next day.. would he be OK? Let's assume the person that feeds him his dinner will NOT interact with him purely for the sake of the scenario.. basically.. would he be OK without having any interaction for over 24 hours? (but still be fed and again, this is not a regular thing)